The Modern Girl's Guide To Being A Domestic Goddess
Chapter 12 :
When the Queen is Ready, the King will Appear
All MEN ARE DOGS
Do you really still believe this line? Unfortunately, “All men are dogs” is a line—a belief—that some women still hold on to. Who are these women? These are the women who sit and wait for a good man to fall into their laps. These are the same women who feel that they have the privilege of getting an honest, good man—without lifting a finger. And when they don’t, they act stunned, hurt, and betrayed. And they say, “All men are dogs.”
Here’s the truth: There is an abundance of good men walking this earth! Like I said before, they’re all over the place. But they will not walk into your life if you’re not ready for all that a “good man” brings. And they will definitely not walk into your life if it’s a life that they don’t wish to be a part of. Who are you to ask for a good man if you are not yourself a good woman who’s living a good life?
If you haven’t found that perfect man for you, it’s not because there aren’t any available; it’s because you’re not ready for him. Here’s the solution to finding your perfect man: Focus on you. Become the person that you want to have in your life. Do all the things that you would want your man to do for you. Display the behavior that you’d want him to have. So if you want an honest, financially able man who is physically fit and spiritually grounded, then—you guessed right—that’s exactly who you have to be.
You have to start speaking the truth, getting your finances in order, and getting your body together. You have to explore your spirituality and strengthen your relationship with God. Because whatever you are doing is exactly what you will attract. So if you’re sitting around doing nothing all day, you’re out of shape, and your finances are all jacked up, you can’t walk around…